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Wedding planning checklist and timeline

Enter your wedding date and we’ll lay out the plan from the first booking to the big day, with real dates. We’ll flag what is urgent right now and what you need to catch up on.

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To do now

11tasks

Current stage: 8 months before

Days to go
300 days
Past due
2 stages
Marriage license by
August 8, 2027
0/44
  1. 12 months before

    August 15, 2026 · overdue
  2. 10 months before

    October 15, 2026 · overdue
  3. 8 months before

    December 15, 2026 · now
  4. 6 months before

    February 15, 2027 · later
  5. 4 months before

    April 15, 2027 · later
  6. 3 months before

    May 15, 2027 · later
  7. 2 months before

    June 15, 2027 · later
  8. 1 month before

    July 15, 2027 · later
  9. 2 weeks before

    August 1, 2027 · later
  10. 1 week before

    August 8, 2027 · later
  11. Day before

    August 14, 2027 · later
  12. Wedding day

    August 15, 2027 · later
  • Marriage license: apply no earlier than July 16, 2027 and no later than August 8, 2027.
  • Stages past due: 2. If you’ve already done some of them, turn on “We’ve already done the past stages”.

How we calculate

  1. Deadlines are counted back from your date in calendar months (e.g., 4 months before June 19 is February 19), and the final stages in days.
  2. The “now” stage is the next one ahead of you plus any stage due within 30 days. Stages whose deadline has passed are flagged to catch up on - unless you tell us they’re done.
  3. Marriage license window: we suggest applying no earlier than 30 days and no later than 7 days before the wedding. That fits the rules in almost every state - licenses are valid for 30 to 90 days, and waiting periods run from none to 3 days (24 hours in New York, 72 hours in Texas).

Cheat sheet: prices and good practice

Marriage license basics

  • Fee: about $30-115, depending on the state and county
  • Valid for 30-90 days in most states (New York 60, California and Texas 90)
  • Waiting period: none in many states, 24 hours in New York, 72 hours in Texas
  • You both apply in person (or by video in some counties) with photo ID
  • After the ceremony the officiant files the signed license - then order certified copies for the name change

Typical lead times

  • Venue: 10-12 months ahead
  • Save-the-dates: 6-8 months before
  • Invitations: mailed 6-8 weeks before
  • Final headcount to the caterer: about 2 weeks before

Questions and answers

We have less than six months. Can we still pull it off?

Yes. Stages will overlap, so some tasks will show as past due - that is normal. Start with the venue, photographer and music, because those dates disappear fastest. Fridays, Sundays and off-season dates are much easier to book.

When should we get the marriage license?

About one to four weeks before the wedding: inside the validity window in almost every state, with time to spare for any waiting period. Check your county clerk’s website - fees, ID rules and appointments vary by state and county.

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