How much does a baptism party cost?
Add up what parents typically spend on a baptism or christening: the party, the outfit, a church donation, and the extras. Alongside, we show what each godparent usually spends, so it is easier to agree on who buys what.
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Baptism party cost
$1,050
paid by the parents
- Party per adult
- $25
- Per guest
- $40
- Each godparent spends
- $255
- Gift about $150, a keepsake, and half of the candle and garment
Where the money goes
- Party: adults25 × $25$630
- Decorationsballoons, flowers, centerpieces$120
- Christening outfitgown or white outfit, shoes, bonnet$90
- Cakefor 20-35 guests$90
- Party: kids6 × $13$75
- Church donationoptional$50
- Schedule the baptism with your church 1-3 months ahead. Many parishes ask parents to attend a short preparation class, and Catholic godparents may need a sponsor certificate from their own parish - ask them to request it early.
- With a baby, plan a shorter party (2-4 hours) and a quiet spot for feeding or a nap.
- Kids under 4 usually eat free - confirm it with the restaurant.
How we calculate
- We price the party per person: at home about $25, at a restaurant about $45, at a banquet hall, hotel, or country club about $70 per adult. Kids 4-12 usually cost half, little ones under 4 nothing. The area shifts prices (major metros about +35%).
- A church donation is optional - enter your own amount. Godparents often buy the baptismal candle and white garment; if you buy them yourselves, we add about $60.
- What each godparent spends (a gift, a keepsake, and half of the candle and garment) is shown separately - it is not part of the parents’ cost.
Cheat sheet: prices and good practice
Prices in 2026
- Restaurant brunch or lunch: $30-70 per person
- Christening gown or outfit: $40-200
- Candle and white garment: $30-120
- Cake: $50-150
- Photographer: $250-700
Typical baptism gifts
- Godparents: $100-250 plus a keepsake (cross, Bible, engraved silver)
- Grandparents: $100-300
- Aunt or uncle: $50-100
- Friends: $25-50 or a small gift
Questions and answers
How much does a baptism party for 30 guests cost?
A brunch at home for 25 adults and a few kids usually runs about $1,050 with the outfit, cake, decorations, and a church donation. The same party at a restaurant is about $1,600.
What do godparents usually pay for?
Traditionally the baptismal candle and white garment, often a keepsake such as a cross necklace or a children’s Bible, plus a gift for the child - cash, or a contribution to a 529 college savings account. Two godparents often split the candle and garment.
Is there a fee for a baptism?
Usually not. Many churches suggest a donation of $25-100 or a stipend for the priest or pastor - ask the parish office.
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For the party itself
Games every guest plays at once
Couple trivia, awards and a finale on the big screen. Guests join with a QR code on their phones, no app to download.